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A very interesting article came across my path this week – New ‘Christian Swingers’ Dating Site Offers Faithful Couples a Chance to ‘Hookup’. Think this is a very controversial topic? Many of the ideas and points in “The New Monogamy” touch on why this site exists, and how Swinging could be integrated into anyone’s life, maybe even a Christian life, if couples are honest with one another. It is not the lifestyle that’s the issue, it is the dishonesty that could become problematic. It’s important for each couple to discuss and negotiate the explicit relationship agreement between them. It’s a private matter – does anyone else need to know the boundaries and limits in your monogamy agreement? What are your thoughts?
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There’s a common belief that increasing communication in a relationship can solve all the woes, but that’s not necessarily true. The important thing to consider is – what is communication? Communication is more than words spoken, emailed, texted, chatted. Effective communication lies in the actions, body language, and vocal tone between the lines. Imagine, both people of a couple are talking at each other – there’s no room for understanding of the message, feelings, experience behind the words. This is the heart of Imago.
Kim Dodd, LMFT has provided a wonderful article highlighting 4 of the roadblocks to better communication and I think it’s a great start to the conversation around better communication.
Read it here: Marriage Myth #4: All We Need is Better Communication (part 1)
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There’s a cultural belief growing in strength and magnitude – your thinking will manifest in your life, whether it’s positive or negative. And so we should all think positively so that great things will happen for us. Hidden within this message is a threat that we had better ignore, avoid, deny anything that is not ideal, even if it is true. RSA Animate created this beautiful clip from a talk by journalist, author, and activist Barbara Ehrenreich discussing how this belief of the power in positive thinking has been harmful to our lives, economy, and overall well-being.
What’s your opinion? Can an optimistic attitude make everything better? Or does ignoring all the possibilities put us at greater risk of harm and heartache?
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