Tammy Nelson's Discussion Boards > Return of Desire; Getting the sex you want
Tammy, in the last session you mentioned a study that found the primary reason for low desire in women was resentment. Would you provide the citation? I'd like to follow-up on this. Thanks, Judith in Oregon
Judith
Thanks for your question - I would look at the new book with John Grey called "When Mars and Venus Collide" - I think it references the study.
Also, check out
http://books.google.com/books?id=8aLMVk0_vm4C&pg=PA42&lpg=PA42&dq=women+and+resentment+as+block+to+sex&source=web&ots=H0teQNxc_c&sig=OofqqO5szWYQ0dcaFeM0G-K8ia4&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=7&ct=result#PPA11,M1
for more info on women and resentment, as well as Michelle Weiner's "walk away wife" article:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_walkaway_wife.htm
Thanks for joining us in the teleclass, and I will be in Portland the first week of November - maybe we can have coffee.
Tammy
Try this month's PASSION tip and keep your partnership passionate and alive!
This month's PASSION tip:
Tell your partner one thing you appreciate about them as a lover.
It can be something you appreciate about their body, or how they touch you, or the sound of their whisper when they say "I love you."
Imagine how nice it will be for the person you care about to hear how sexy they are...
And remember, you always get more of what you appreciate!

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