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UPCOMING EVENTS

Thursday
Apr192012

4/19 - Presenting at CT Marriage & Family Therapy Conference

CTAMFT Annual Conference 2012 - Thursday April 19, 2012 to Friday April 20, 2012

"Sex & Intimacy; Treating Couples with Desire Discrepancy and Sexual Dysfunction" by Dr. Tammy Nelson

For more info and to register, click HERE.

Friday
Apr132012

4/13/12 - Tammy Keynote Speaker at PAMFT Conference in Philadelphia

TECHNOLOGY AND RELATIONSHIPS; Changing the Way We Relate

In this time of internet relating, technology connects us all through our hand held devices,social networking sites and interface media. The way we relate to the world in general is less personal and direct then ever before.
Instead of fighting the tide of technology, and fantasizing that we will somehow revert to the old days of personal contact and thank you cards, we can learn to embrace the tide of communication breakthroughs and teach couples and families ways of integrating new skills into their lives at a time when we all must learn to ride the new wave of changing applications into our future.

Dr. Tammy Nelson will be the keynote speaker at the American Family Therapist Academy conference in Philadelphia, presenting on technology and relationships.

More info & to register: http://www.pamft.com/ohana/events/details.cfm?id=321

Friday
Mar302012

3/30/12 - Presenting at Momentum Con in Washington, DC

The second annual MOMENTUM Conference takes place
March 30 to April 1, 2012  in Washington, DC.

The phenomenal growth of online communication has given rise to an amazing amount of sharing, learning and experimenting with different expressions of sexuality, relationships and feminism. MOMENTUM provides a safe place to listen, discuss and learn about sexualities and gender without the fear of reprisal or shaming. It is a space for acceptance and appreciation of diversity, including for those in the LGBTQ, sex-work, BDSM and non-monogamous communities.

For more info, go to: http://momentumcon.com/

 

The New Monogamy: Redefining Relationships -  Is Infidelity the New Monogamy?  
Tammy Nelson, PhD

We live in a culture where almost fifty percent of married people get divorced. Many of these marriages end as a result of infidelity, perhaps as high as one third. Does this mean that as a society in general we are not committed to monogamy?

It may be hard to continue to view infidelity as an out of the norm behavior in a country where almost 60% of men and over 45% of women will cheat at some point in their marriage.

Today, couples in modern marriages are negotiating their fidelity partly as a way to avoid the pain of betrayal. This new type of attachment includes management of their relationship through negotiation. This “out-fidelity” (versus infidelity) means that their affairs are out in the open. Couples can have sexual and emotional relationships with others as long as there is complete honesty and disclosure.

More and more couples are broadening their understanding of what commitment and monogamy means to them, without giving up the desire for a long-term, committed relationship with one person. This new monogamy is different than polyamory, not the same as open marriage, and could lead to a new development in society and sexual freedom altogether.

 

 

Thursday
Mar222012

3/22-25/12 - Tammy presents at Pyschotherapy Networker Symposium

SEX AND LOVE ON THE INTERNET

At the Omni in DC Tammy Nelson will present in front of psychotherapists at the Psychotherapy Networker on Finding Sex and Love on the Internet - how single people both new and second chance daters can find hope, sex and disaster online.  In this new world of virtual connection, the risks and the rewards are great, and frankly, the only option for people looking for love.

Find more info here.

Saturday
Mar032012

3/3-10/12 - Couples Retreat in Mexico

At Casa De los Artistas, 10 miles south of Puerto Vallarta

March 3 - 10, 2012 - Saturday to Saturday

Getting the Love You Want - and Getting the Sex You Want - in one amazing week.           

Workshop for three hours in the morning on a beautiful beach in a romantic fishing village.  All afternoon and evening is yours to enjoy the new intimacy and connection you will find in this amazing retreat!  Do you and your partner a favor and register today!

 

To REGISTER CALL 413-625-8382 or go to the Casa site

Saturday
Mar032012

Retreat for Couples, Singles and Professionals; Getting the Love and the Sex You Want

Date: March 3 - March 10, 2012
Location: Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Presenter: Tammy Nelson, PhD

Sponsor: Casa de los Artistas

Contact: Monica Levine

Telephone: 413.625.8382

Email: monica@crocker.com and tammy@drtammynelson.com

AASECT approved for 18 CE credits

Tuesday
Feb142012

5/16-19/12 - Presentation at AFTA Conference, San Francisco

More info coming soon.

http://www.afta.org/

Friday
Nov112011

COUPLES RETREAT - GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT 

  
New Haven Connecticut
November 11-12, 2011
 
Using the skills of Imago Relationship therapy, and individualized, focused attention on your relationship, Intensives are four hour sessions (or more) that help you increase communication, intervene in a crisis or give you more connection.  Intensives help you each feel seen and heard. 
 
Using techniques from the work of Harville Hendrix's "Getting the Love You Want",  and "Getting the Sex You Want," Tammy Nelson, PhD, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Imago therapist, will guide you to your deepest relationship healing.  
 
These private therapy sessions are available only on a limited basis and there is only ONE weekend spot left in 2011.  There are only TWO sessions left in that weekend spot.  To reserve your spot now email tammy@drtammynelson.com to hold your time and then go to http://www.drtammynelson.com/couples-sessions/ and leave your deposit.
 
Whether you are looking to feel closer to your partner or heal your relationship, Intensives can help. 
 
If you are in a crisis or just want to take your love to a deeper level, let Dr. Tammy Nelson design an Intensive especially for the two of you. 
 
 
 
Total costs and directions are available - email tammy@drtammynelson.com or call 203-438-3007

 

Wednesday
Nov092011

Teleseminar (4 CEs) - "Return of Desire/Getting the Sex You Want, part 7"

Return of Desire - Getting the Sex You Want - Part 7 
(with all new material)
Attendance at previous classes not required

Five part teleseminar for health professionals
Presented by Dr. Tammy Nelson and Dr. Gina Ogden 
12-1pm EST -- November 9, 16, 30, December 7, 14, 2011
Cost: $250 total ($200 if registered by Oct 10, 2011)
Approved for 5 AASECT CEs

Thursday
Nov032011

Teleseminar (4 CEs) - "The New Monogamy: Redefining Relationships After Infidelity"

The New Monogamy: Redefining Relationships After Infidelity 
Four part teleseminar presented by Dr. Tammy Nelson
11 am EST - Nov 3, 10, 17, Dec 1, 2011
Cost: $175 (if registered by Oct 1, 2011)
Approved for 4 AASECT CEs 

Tuesday
Nov012011

Teleseminar (5 CEs) - "Eros & Psychotherapy: Love, Sex, & Power in Relationships"

Eros & Psychotherapy: Love, Sex, and Power in Relationships
Five part teleseminar presented by Dr. Tammy Nelson and Esther Perel 
2-3 pm EST - Nov 1,  8, 15, 22, 29, 2011
Cost: $249 ($50 early registration discount if paid by Oct 10) 
Approved for 5 AASECT CEs 

Friday
Oct212011

4/20/2012 - Sex and Intimacy; Working with Couples and Desire

CT American Family Therapy Association

Conference

Mystic, CT

April 20, 2012

Friday
Oct212011

3/30/12 - Is Infidelity the New Monogamy?

Dr. Tammy Nelson

THE MOMENTUM conference - Feminism and Sexuality

Washington,  DC

March 30 - April 1, 2012

Friday
Oct212011

10/21/11 - Imago Relationships International Conference in Copenhagen

Dr. Tammy Nelson will be co-presenting with Dr. Joe Kort on "Sex on the Download: When the Internet Disconnects You from Your Relationships."

This presentation will teach Imago Therapists ways to treat compulsive internet behaviors with Imago dialogical techniques without pathologizing all internet use. Pornography use may satisfy many individual needs, unrelated to psychopathology or sexual dysfucntion. These behaviors may be "gateway" behaviors to other more problematic relationship issues. (2 CEs)

For more info and to register, click here.

Sunday
Jan022011

Advanced Supervision on COUPLES issues

In person, by phone or via Skype

Supervision available for psychotherapists of all backgrounds working with individual and couples issues including improving communcation, affair Recovery, Imago therapy interventions, sex therapy, sex addiction and compulsive sexual behaviors, couples therapy, etc. Focus on nonpathological view of emotional and erotic recovery.

Individual supervision available at the following rates:

Supervision - 30 minutes - $75
Supervision - 45 minutes - $90
Supervision - 60 minutes - $125

Group supervision limited to six students at the following rates:

ON PHONE or SKYPE -6 weeks - $75 per 75 minute session - total payable at $450
IN PERSON -6 weeks - $110 per 75 minute session - total payable at $660

Some sliding scale options may be available.

Dr. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert and author, speaker and supervisor

Contact tammy@drtammynelson.com  for dates, times and info on sliding scale options.

 

Sunday
Jan022011

Getting the Love You Want Couples Workshop

GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT

COUPLES  WORKSHOP

NEW dates -- November 11 and 12, 2011

 This intensive two day Imago therapy workshop will help you create a more intimate connection with your significant other... Imago Therapy is based on the book Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix (see www.Oprah.com for more info about Imago Relationship therapy).

This workshop can help you…..

If you want to be closer to your partner,

If you are starting a new relationship,

If you are healing a conflict in your marriage.

We will use written exercise, guided imagery, and lecture and demonstrations.  Alone with your partner, you will practice communication skills, and do safe, confidential work together.

Practice skills needed for long term happiness in a safe and confidential environment with a Certified Imago Therapist......

Location:  Center for Healing & Recovery,

77 Danbury Rd, Ridgefield, CT

 $850 per couple -

Deposit DUE by January 10!

Call Tammy Nelson at 203.438.3007 or click below to register

 

This date doesnt work for you?  Write for more info on Intensives - tammy@drtammynelson.com

 

 

Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a Certified Imago Workshop Presenter and a Certified Imago therapist, as well as a  Board Certified Sexologist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor and psychotherapist with over 25 years’ experience treating women, men and couples. In her private practice, she specializes in treating couples with intimacy issues, addiction, sexual compulsion and affair recovery after infidelity. She is the author of several books including Getting the Sex You Want ; Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together, as well as  What’s Eating You? A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia and Other Eating Disorders (2005), available through Amazon.com and is working on her third book, The New Monogamy; Erotic Recovery after Infidelity.



Saturday
Jan012011

RENEW YOUR RELATIONSHIP 

Intensives for Couples

Begin the process of renewing and renegotiating your relationship, integrate the betrayal, process anger and hurt, find a new love for each other and move into a new phase of your relationship.

Hours available in 2010

Location: Ridgefield or New Haven Connecticut

Renewal workshop for couples recovering from Infidelity, communication issues, sexual desire discrepancy, boredom, conflict

Recent attendees are saying:

"I feel like we can move on in a new way, we have hope now - not to go back to what we had but to start something new."  Tom, Nov. 2009 (Intensive)

  
tammy@drtammynelson.com

 Cost:  includes manuals (with discount code-please ask)


PAY NOW - DEPOSIT OF $200 WILL HOLD YOUR SPOT -  

Upcoming dates are limited - some availability in New Haven - ask for more information - only a few Saturdays left

Intensives focused on you and your partner alone with Tammy Nelson