Getting the Sex You Want

Getting the Sex You Want, two-part teleclass

~Create the Erotic Life of Your Dreams~

Class has been rescheduled!

Two Tuesdays ● February 5 & 12, 2012 ● 2pm to 3pm EST
Cost: $99 (MP3s and exercises for couples included Free!)

Take this class LIVE on the phone or listen to the downloadable recording ANYTIME. Give this course as a GIFT this holiday and get the love and sex you really want. Don’t wait, register today for my special offer. You won’t want to miss this teleseminar!

Do you crave a more fulfilling sex life? Do you wish for a more intimate and emotionally rewarding relationship? Join one of the top experts in the field of love and eroticism for an open discussion on the keys to creating and sustaining passion in a long-term love affair with a partner and with yourself.

Learn to unlock the mysteries of passion, discover your own sexual needs, share new fantasies and desires, increase erotic satisfaction, and fall deeply in love with sensuality and with one another again.

In this course, participants will learn:

• One proven way that every couple can increase intimate and emotional connection
• Two easy ways to communicate a fantasy and take risk in your erotic life
• Three ways to increase sexual desire, in yourself and in your partner
• Four things that prevent long term passion and what you can do about them.

This course is approved for 2 CEs from AASECT.

Tammy Nelson, PhD, LPC, is a Certified Sexologist and a Certified Imago Therapist. She is the author of Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together, and the upcoming The New Monogamy; Redefining Relationships After Infidelity.

Getting the Sex You Want
Three part class with Dr. Tammy Nelson
2-3 pm EST — June 19, 26, July 3
Cost: $149
Approved for 3 AASECT & Imago CEs

This class is appropriate for couples & individuals looking to improve their erotic lives as well as therapists & health care professionals.

This teleclass will discuss ways that couples and individuals can use the newest research in love and desire to create a passionate connection in relationship. There are studies that show that couples who have a satisfying sex life have lower rates of divorce and report higher levels of satisfaction. These couples may also have fewer affairs, seek outside erotic stimulation less often, and bring home their sexual needs and desires more commonly than couples who are dissatisfied with their erotic life. This class will help participants understand what it takes to express needs, fantasies and desires and why that can decrease anxiety in the partner as well as the partnership. Find out how to access that fantasy life and more importantly feel comfortable sharing it.

In this course:

• Participants will learn ways to re-sexualize long term partnerships
• Participants will learn ways to create the erotic connection they truly desire
• Participants will learn how to increase sexual generosity and the paradox of giving to get
• Participants will learn about sexual empathy and how to deeply love again
• Participants will learn ways to communicate fantasies with a partner about what they really want and need

• Week 1- Sex and Love: We will explore what creates desire and rejection.
• Week 2- Sex and Attachment: Power and differentiation in the desire discrepancy cycle.
• Week 3- Sex and Therapy: Couples therapy with individuals and other challenges to traditional treatment.
• Week 4- Sex and Power: Engage couples in the exploration of control – in and out of bed.
• Week 5- Sex and Aging: Beyond menopause and andropause; learn how erotic age is different than real age.

This teleseminar explores how to address the choices and challenges that arise in couples therapy while helping a couple heal from infidelity.

• Week 1 – Oct 13, 2010 – Participants learn how to intervene in impasses resulting from discrepant sexual desire, sexual routine, pursuer-distancer dynamic, power struggles, lack of intimacy, cybersex, and de-sexualizing of partners. Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 2 – Oct 20, 2010 – Participants learn how to design creative interventions to unlock erotic blocks stemming from shame, fear,guilt and trauma. Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 3 – Oct 27, 2010 – Participants learn to help couples negotiate their sexual styles, and take emotional risks to open up sexual communication about boundaries, fidelity and monogamy. Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 4 – Nov 3, 2010 – Participants learn to help couples negotiate their sexual styles, and take emotional risks to open up sexual communication about boundaries, fidelity and monogamy. Participants also learn how to identify three patterns in the way couples reorganize themselves after an infidelity. Purchase Separately ($50)

These programs meet the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and each one-hour class is approved for one (1) CE credit. These CE credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification. Download will be available immediately after payment.

• Week 1 – The Sexual Intimacy Contract – Till What Do Us Part? Purchase Week 1 Separately ($50)
• Week 2 – GLBTQ: Understanding the Alphabet Soup of Sexual Identity Purchase Week 2 Separately ($50)
• Week 3 – Substance Use and Abuse – How Much is Too Much for Sex and Intimacy? Purchase Week 3 Separately ($50)
• Week 4 – Porn and Erotica – Creator or Destroyer of Sexual Pleasure? Purchase Week 4 Separately ($50)
• Week 5 – Teaching the Art of Kissing, Touching, and Other Sensual Secrets Purchase Week 5 Separately ($50)

• Week 1 – Dynamics of Desire–Transforming Pleasure Anxiety and Other Sexual Roadblock
• Week 2 – Imago Techniques for Couples—Effective Communication for Sexual Intimacy
• Week 3 – Menopause and Andropause—Helping Clients Stay Erotic throughout the Life Span
• Week 4 – Breathing, Imagining, Letting Go—Visualizations to Expand Sexual Self-Esteem and Pleasure
• Week 5 – Poly, Kink, & Other Edgy Subjects—Working with Marginalized or Misunderstood Clients

• Week 1 – Low sexual desire – is it a sex problem or a relationship problem? Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 2 – Understanding the neurobiology of sexual abuse and trauma Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 3 – Countertransference and the power of the wounded healer Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 4 – Effective treatment of sexual compulsivity and porn addiction Purchase Separately ($50)
• Week 5 – Guided imagery and visualization as paths to erotic connection Purchase Separately ($50)

• Week 1 – Couple Therapy and Sex Therapy – What Can We Learn from Each? Purchase Week 1 Separately ($50)
• Week 2 – Religion, Medicine, and Media – Cultural Influences that Bind Purchase Week 2 Separately ($50)
• Week 3 – What Men Want, What Women Want, Who’s On Top? Purchase Week 3 Separately ($50)
• Week 4 – Exorcising Sexual Anxiety and Fear; Reclaiming Intimacy Purchase Week 4 Separately ($50)
• Week 5 – Lubes and Vibes – What Works? What Doesn’t? When to Use Them Purchase Week 5 Separately ($50)
• Week 6 – The Art and Science of Eastern sexual practices – New Avenues for Satisfaction Purchase Week 6 Separately ($50)

• Week 1 – Four Aspects of Sexuality All Clinicians Need to Understand Purchase Week 1 Separately ($50)
• Week 2 – The Serious Role of Play and Pleasure Purchase Week 2 Separately ($50)
• Week 3 – The Interaction of Neurobiology and Medication Purchase Week 3 Separately ($50)
• Week 4 – Helping Clients toward Emotional Risk-taking and Erotic Action Purchase Week 4 Separately ($50)
• Week 5 – Opening the Conversation about Monogamy, Affairs, and Polyamory Purchase Week 5 Separately ($50)
• Week 6 – The Best Is Yet To Come – Sex, Love, and Growing Older Purchase Week 6 Separately ($50)

This 5-week teleseminar course helps health professionals learn to negotiate the complex subject of sexuality issues in couples counseling.

• Week 1 – Oct 20, 2010 – Nuanced Treatment of Low Sexual Desire—Medical and Alternative Approaches Purchase Week 1 Separately ($50)
• Week 2 – Oct 27, 2010 – Taking an Effective Sex History—What Questions to Ask: Why? What? and How? Purchase Week 2 Separately ($50)
• Session 3 – Nov 3, 2010 – PTSD—Exploring the Shadow Side of Sexual Response Purchase Week 3 Separately ($50)
• Session 4 – Nov 10, 2010 – Pleasure, Orgasm, and Ecstasy—Exploring the Bright Side of Sexual Response Purchase Week 4 Separately ($50)
• Session 5 – Nov 17, 2010 – After the Affair—Recovering Self-Esteem and Building Erotic Relationship Purchase Week 5 Separately ($50)