Anyone familiar with my work (Getting The Sex You Want or The New Monogamy) knows that a happy marriage full of love isn’t a magical fairytale like the culture tells us. If both partners are dedicated to giving to the relationship, then both partners will receive the love they want. So you’re ready to attract the perfect partner, but what do you do to bring Mr. or Mrs. Right into your life? What do we do when we are ready to find our soul mate?
As a host for YourTango, I asked the Experts to weigh in: “What steps can you take to attract the perfect partner?”
Imago Institute’s Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Tony Victor LCPC, Sue Butler LMFT and Certified Sex Therapist Kimberly Anderson get into the nitty gritty of the perfect relationship and what it takes to make things work.
The bottom line is that you can’t find genuine love if you don’t love yourself. In the following video, we make a convincing case for why you must get your own life in order BEFORE you can truly appreciate and enjoy your soul mate.
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