Are you more like roommates than spouses?

Has “not tonight, honey” become a common refrain? The truth is, passionless, sexually unsatisfying marriages don’t get that way overnight. And, unfortunately for some, the more time passes, the harder it is to revive your sex life. Brittany Wong pulled together relationship experts like me to offer up seven signs that you could be on your way to a sexless marriage — Read some tips on how to reignite the passion between you and your partner.

“Biologically, the body stops producing the sex hormones that make you aroused, especially if you have gone long periods without it,” I explained. “And then you may start to feel like you aren’t interested in it anyway.”

So how do you take sex off the back-burner? Schedule in sex dates. It may seem like the least sexy plan of attack but it will likely get you and your partner back on track.

“The more sex you have, the more sex you want,” I explained. “Having sex can jump start the engine and it may even remind you that you enjoy making love to your partner. You might get out of the roommate rut and start to do it more often.”