You have a fantasy. You think about it a lot. You leave silk scarves out on the side of the bed for your partner to see, hoping they will get the hint, but you haven’t brought it up directly.
You have a bondage fantasy: you want your partner to tie you up.
In a study done in Quebec published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 64% of women and 53% of men have fantasies of being dominated. Also, 36.3% of women have had fantasies of being spanked or whipped by someone, and 28.5% of men have those same desires.
These are submission fantasies.
Being into bondage means you want to be tied up or restricted in some way, or would like to do it to your partner to enhance your erotic experience. This might mean you are ‘submissive’ or ‘kinky’. Maybe you want to try being tied up because it sounds hot! Whatever the reason, bondage seems like a fun thing you want to try. To find out more about where to start, read the full article on YourTango.
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