Want to know what to do if sex on Valentine’s Day was less than stellar? Sometimes the romantic hype doesn’t add up to everything you dreamed it would be. Read some of my expert advice in “What To Do If You’re Less Than Satisfied With Your Sex Life.” Here are some highlights:
Carve out some time for a weekly sex date. Scheduling time for sex may sound supremely unsexy but hey, desperate times call for desperate measures. When you and your partner have hit your stride again, you’ll think back fondly on your days of Google calendar-suggested sex. “If you haven’t had intercourse for a long time, don’t think that you can hop in bed now and get right on that,” said Tammy Nelson, a sex therapist and the author of Getting the Sex You Want. “With a sex date on the calendar, you are more likely to plan out what you can do to make it fun, different and exciting.” If something feels good, go with it. You may have had certain preferences back in the day. As you re-approach sex again, give yourself permission to experiment with whatever comes naturally and feels right to you both, Nelson said. It may help you get out of your rut. “If you ate ravioli every night of the week for year after year, wouldn’t you be totally sick of ravioli?” she said. “Try something new. You aren’t going to have sex if you’ve been together for a long time and sex has become boring or mundane.”
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