Is it my fault my partner cheated?

My latest blog on YourTango addresses the most common question asked by partners who were cheated on:

Why did my partner cheat on me?

Why is usually the hardest and most painful question after one of you cheats.  It’s easier to answer “where, when and how.” But those questions are rarely going to give you the answers that fill your deepest needs.  “Why?” is the one resounding question that will echo through your mind and heart long after you are cheated on and even sometimes if you are the cheater.

Read the whole blog here.