A study recently found that people experience a boost in dopamine after getting away with unethical behavior such as parking in a handicapped spot, cheating on a test, or faking a disability. Fellow couples therapists Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson of The Couples Institute wonder if this experience may play a part in couples’ deception. Check out her blog post on the idea at Do your couples get high from cheating? or read the original article at The Cheater’s High: The Unexpected Affective Benefits of Unethical Behavior
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After the devastation of an affair, how can committed partners heal, reconnect, and grow their erotic relationship? Join Tammy and Janis for a two-part teleclass, After the Affair: Reinventing Your Sexual Relationship, on how we can help partners rebuild trust and safety and utilize the erotic injury to develop a greater sense of intimacy and connection. We’ll share practical tools and interventions and spell out a new definition of sexual intimacy and outline the stages of healing and reconnection for couples who suffer from the hurt and betrayal of affairs.
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