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When You’re the One Who Cheats is available from Amazon.com ! bit.ly/whenyoucheat An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL...

An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL Publishing 2019 By Dr Tammy Nelson As an exploratory exercise, and to do research for this book , I logged onto one of the more popular “married but dating” websites, Ashley Madison, a website where married people meet other married people to have an affair. There are 54 million people worldwide on the website, and I wanted to know what was drawing so many people to the cheating site. I created a couple of profiles for myse

An excerpt from When You’re the One Who Cheats © RL Publishing 2019 By Dr Tammy Nelson “Twenty percent of adults have practiced consensual non-monogamy at some point in their lives” – Wednesday Martin, Author of Untrue Marriage is evolving, adapting to our 21st-century sensibilities. You could have your cake and eat it, too. And why shouldn’t you? Most people, if they could arrange it, would want the cake and the marriage, too. But could you have it if you discussed it op

The “Casual Dating Affair” is one that evolves slowly. It sneaks up on you. Perhaps this has happened to you. You’re only going out for drinks, or for lunch, or for an occasional “business” dinner, with a friend or colleague. You’ve had a few of these get-togethers. This kind of casual relationship begins to turn into something more. You find yourself attracted to this person, you enjoy their company, you want to spend more time together. You text after dinner to say thanks.

Ashley Madison recently revealed that more men sign up for their online dating site during the month of October than any other month of the year. Ashley Madison is a website for married people to find other married people to date. I shared several reasons in their article why I thought this might be so. One reason? October is the start of “cuffing season.” What is Cuffing Season? Cuffing season is the time of year when people turn toward each other for warmth and companionshi

Twenty five to sixty five percent of people cheat at some point in their marriage. The results of infidelity research are non-conclusive: we aren’t really sure exactly how many people cheat. Cheating is based on dishonesty, and those polled lie even to the researchers. When Do They Communicate? We do know that between 8 and 9 am on Monday mornings is apparently the most likely time that cheaters will communicate with their lovers. The site, Illicit Encounters, designed to fac

There are three simple steps that all couples who survive an affair move through to feel better. Can you recover after your partner has an affair?  There are three simple steps that all couples who survive an affair move through to feel better, stronger, sexier and more passionate than ever. Some couples even say they are happier after infidelity .  They have more intimacy , they feel connected and they know what they want for their future.  Are you one of those couples? If