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A recent article, “ No More Struggle Porn, ” makes an excellent case for not buying into the myth that if you’re not struggling, you’re not doing the right thing to succeed at your chosen profession. I see a parallel in the world of amateur marriage advice. The Difference Between Struggling and Working Hard The article affirmed that working hard is not bad. The author takes issue with the idea that struggling is the same thing as working hard and that you have to struggle to

All couples have arguments. Fighting with your spouse can be a good sign. It could mean that you feel comfortable enough to be open with them about your true feelings. The problems start when you don’t know how to express those feelings and you turn a disagreement into an argument and it escalates, turns hurtful, and then turns into a fight. And most of us have not been trained how to have a fair fight. How many of us have been taught conflict management and conflict resoluti