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Many things could be causing conflict in your relationship, but issues around sex and desire might be the biggest reason. Conversations around sex are often avoided but they might actually be the cause of your arguments over other less important things. Some couples have mismatched desires for sex. Others have unspoken assumptions about desire. These can lead to feelings of anger, shame, disappointment, and a longing for connection. However, many people feel they don’t have t

In the next video for YourTango, John Gray, LiYana Silver, Debi Berndt and I continue our discussion with what makes monogamy work. Are...

The bestselling book, “Getting the Love You Want” written by Harville Hendrix, teaches couples a powerful form of healing that Hendrix...

My latest article on Huffington Post addresses what to do when you want to end an affair and move on: You are still hiding the affair. In...