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What conversations do men wish they could avoid having with their spouses? In this article on Huffington Post professionals share the conversations that most impact their clients’ relationships, along with suggestions for how to communicate in order to connect in a more positive way and see better results. See all nine experts’ suggestions in the full article, and my expert advice below: “Ugh, I hate how you leave the dishes in the sink.” You may want your spouse to be a li

In the past several months we’ve seen a number of “religious freedom” bills being passed by state legislatures. These bills generally seek to provide protections for those who do not wish to be compelled to serve LGBTQ individuals or provide them services. These bills have taken a darker turn, however, with the introduction of laws in Mississippi and Tennessee that provide exemptions for medical and counseling professionals, respectively, from treating patients based on reli

Sometimes marital problems come out in big events like infidelity. Often, though, it’s the little daily things that are cause for concern. In this article on Huffington Post 11 experts share their advice on what warning signs to look for in your marriage. Read my advice below and check out the full article: 2. You no longer go to bed at the same time. “This could be a sign that they are avoiding intimacy. They might be unhappy in the relationship and creating distance betwee

We tend to think of anxiety over sexual performance as a problem men suffer from and may have to deal with on their own. The truth is, women also experience performance anxiety, often related to their belief that their partner expects perfection from them in bed. According to research when perfectionism is perceived in a partner or imposed by society, it can create a devastating chain reaction. Women experiencing this pressure tend to have low self esteem, decreased arousal,

Having a partner cheat on you can be devastating. That type of hurt and betrayal can take some time to recover your feeling of safety and trust in the relationship. The good news is that for some partners being cheated on may actually make you stronger and can increase your likelihood of finding a more suitable partner or even create a stronger relationship with your current partner. New research shows that experiencing infidelity in one relationship appears to help attune w

Marriage is one of the biggest commitments made in a lifetime. It’s natural to feel nervous — even a bit apprehensive — about spending the rest of your life with one person, but at what point are those feelings indicative of something more? Check out all the signs you’re not quite ready to tie the knot, according to experts at the full article on Huffington Post , and see my advice below: You’re interested in an open marriage, but haven’t told your partner yet. “Wait, you hav

Parenting is a challenge. We try our best to be what our children need so that they can become the best version of themselves possible. But what do you do when you’re parenting a child who’s questioning their gender identity or who comes out as transgender? You may not have the language to even discuss these issues, and there may be concerns about how to protect your child from bullying or how to get them the care they need to be happy and fulfilled. Transgender parenting res

If we are lucky, we have one friend who’s good at communication and willing to help when we need them. What makes them a good friend? They seem to know when you’re having a bad day and what you need in order to feel loved. We value them because they are caring and empathetic. Some people do seem to be able to more easily express empathy. Research suggests that when confronted with an emotional response some will reach out and respond with care and some people retract protect

Think about this before you do something you might regret. If you’re looking for ways to expand the horizons of your relationship, a polyamorous relationship may have crossed your mind. You and your partner get to experiment with new people — it seems like a win-win — but in reality an open relationship takes a TON of maturity, honesty and openness between you and your partner. There’s a lot of misunderstanding and bad information out there. So before you jump in head first,