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Affair-proof your relationship in 4 simple steps — video from Dr. Jenn Berman
All of us want to feel safe and secure in our romantic relationships, knowing the person we love is honest and faithful . . . But...
Dating after divorce: advice for single parents
With the divorce rate in America hovering around 50%, there are many single parents who are back on the dating circuit. Blended families...
Its not too late! Join us in Mexico for a couples retreat in Paradise
More couples than ever before are able to repair their conflict with an expert in a couples retreat. A week long retreat can help you...
Pornography in the Internet age
The internet has drastically changed how we interact with our fellow humans, including sexually. Prior to the internet the only way to...
Should monogamy be relabeled as a religion?
I am intrigued by Justin Natoli’s idea of reframing monogamy as a religion. The belief that complete sexual and social monogamy is the...
Should we work harder to be happier?
The All-or-Nothing Marriage Does marriage today create an expectation that we should work harder to be happier? Couples therapy helps...
Real world example of recovery after infidelity
A strong example of a couple forging the waters of negotiating a new monogamy agreement and healing after the pain and trauma of...
Trust shapes how we love and how we learn, why we succeed
In every relationship, in every moment, issues of trust permeate. We often don’t think about it until our trust has been broken. I often...


New Video series for KidsInTheHouse.com
Advice on how to have decent sex when you are struggling to conceive Advice on how great sex even when you are an exhausted new mom...
Monogamy in the Internet Age
In the age of sexting, online sex, pornography, and all of the varieties and types of internet affairs, how do we as therapists help...
Sex After the Affair
Sex After the Affair – with Janis Abrahms Spring and Tammy Nelson, authors of After the Affair and The New Monogamy – join us for a two...
Loneliness after Divorce – hug yourself happy
Dr. Karen Finn provides some important advice for anyone feeling the wide array of emotions that come with divorce in this article on...
How do you get your skeptical partner into the therapist office?
Following internal or relational conflict, therapy can help heal the wounds left behind. But what if your partner is not so enthusiastic...
Why Men Don’t Cheat, from The GoodMenProject.com
So often when we are talking about cheating the tone is very negative, i.e. “Why did he cheat?” or “What can I do to keep him from...
Do cheaters get a high from lying?
A study recently found that people experience a boost in dopamine after getting away with unethical behavior such as parking in a...
Emotional cheating just as bad, if not worse, than physical
I was mentioned in an article in The Bullet: Emotional cheating just as bad, if not worse, than physical Emotional cheating is the act of...
Christian Swingers?
A very interesting article came across my path this week – New ‘Christian Swingers’ Dating Site Offers Faithful Couples a Chance to...
Relationship myth: Communication is everything
There’s a common belief that increasing communication in a relationship can solve all the woes, but that’s not necessarily true. The...
Announcing a new resource for couples: WeWantMoreNow.com
I’m proud to announce I will be contributing to a new website for couples seeking more intimacy, passion, patience, communication, love,...
Sex and Lies: Infidelity
My latest blog on HuggingtonPost address the reasons why people cheat, and what the problem with infidelity is: sex versus lies. Open any...
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