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According to Ashley Madison’s recent survey, only 67% of both men and women said they felt comfortable telling their sexual fantasies to their spouse, while nearly all (95%) said they talked about their sexual fantasies with their affair partner. Most of the survey respondents also said they were more sexually adventurous with their affair partners and comfortable talking about sex during their affair. It would make sense that to have a sexually fulfilling marriage or ongoing

Has technology changed the way we view sex? The increase in technology has changed not only the way we view life, but who we are as people. The use of smart phones, computers, smart watches and other hand held devices has already turned us all into partial-hybrid-humans. As cyborgs sporting robotic extensions of our own bodies, high tech non-permanent partial attachments to our limbs, we are obligated to check in, to post, to swipe, to update, and to check out, almost all the

Recent articles (like this one by Ian Kerner on CNN ) have been talking about the phenomenon that people in the U.S. today are having less sex than in previous decades. Why Are People Having Less Sex? A variety of reasons have been identified for the decrease in sexual activity. One reason? Parenthood later in life means people have less energy to both parent and to have sex, especially since modern parenting includes more direct involvement in children’s lives. Health is a

By Guest Author, Scarlett White Loving relationships bring countless benefits; security, companionship, a partner that has your back and, if you are lucky, a true friend. Committed partnerships also enjoy a unique level of intimacy. But sometimes the heightened level of familiarity and hectic schedules can interfere with a sexual relationship. Sex can become predictable, routine or even a chore. It’s unlikely that you could recreate the frenzied intensity of the early days of

Couples create low sex relationships. But it only takes one to get it up and running again. What Gets Your Partner “In the Mood?” Do More of That. One of the reasons for sexless partnerships, according a recent HuffPo article , is that partners may have mismatched sex initiation styles. What does this mean for you? You are killing your sex life. You aren’t paying attention to what gest your partner in the mood. In fact, you might be doing the opposite. While you may love to b

What is the number one thing that will guarantee you get the sex you want? Communicate. Before you have sex for the first time. Did you talk about sex with your partner before you did it with them for the first time? Did you share your sexual preferences, what you like to do and how you like to do it? Most people don’t. They fumble around and hope their partner figures out how to make them happy in bed. When they don’t, it can end a new relationship. Sex is an Important Topic

Are Your Sexual Issues Damaging Your Relationship? Sometimes relationship issues cause problems in the bedroom. Ignoring these sexual issues can damage and might even end your relationship. Talk to your partner. Seek professional help if your relationship is suffering. Erotic Trust Can Be Repaired After an Affair A special challenge that I help couples overcome is repairing the erotic connection after an affair. Once trust has been broken, it can be hard to rekindle passion

Lisa Lawless is right : Vibrators can enhance a woman’s sex life. There are a lot of obstacles in life to having great sex. Why shouldn’t more women consider giving a vibrator a try? The intense vibrations from sex devices can cause pleasurable sensations that often lead to quick and powerful orgasms. These same vibrations help to bring more blood flow to the vulva area, making the female body healthier and making sex more pleasurable. And here’s a bonus – all of this can hel

Americans of all ages are having sex less frequently than previous generations. Although the reasons are unclear, a recent study posted on the Today Show website and in the Washington Post , reports that even Millenials are having less sex with fewer partners. Couples used to report more sex than their single peers but are now saying they have erotic interactions less often. While many factors can contribute to low-sex/no-sex relationships, a primary culprit is the lack of c