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A sexless marriage is not hard to define. If you are in a marriage that clearly has not been erotic or sexual for long enough that both of you feel deprived, you can classify it as “sexless.” How Sexless Marriages Develop I recently gave my expert opinion on recognizing the signs that you may be headed toward (or already in) a sexless marriage. Often it has been so long since you have had sex that it feels almost impossible to get back to it. For some couples this may be sev

Couples create low sex relationships. But it only takes one to get it up and running again. What Gets Your Partner “In the Mood?” Do More of That. One of the reasons for sexless partnerships, according a recent HuffPo article , is that partners may have mismatched sex initiation styles. What does this mean for you? You are killing your sex life. You aren’t paying attention to what gest your partner in the mood. In fact, you might be doing the opposite. While you may love to b

Many things could be causing conflict in your relationship, but issues around sex and desire might be the biggest reason. Conversations around sex are often avoided but they might actually be the cause of your arguments over other less important things. Some couples have mismatched desires for sex. Others have unspoken assumptions about desire. These can lead to feelings of anger, shame, disappointment, and a longing for connection. However, many people feel they don’t have t

Americans of all ages are having sex less frequently than previous generations. Although the reasons are unclear, a recent study posted on the Today Show website and in the Washington Post , reports that even Millenials are having less sex with fewer partners. Couples used to report more sex than their single peers but are now saying they have erotic interactions less often. While many factors can contribute to low-sex/no-sex relationships, a primary culprit is the lack of c