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Defining infidelity seems simple. Having sex with someone outside of your committed partnership means cheating, right? But today an affair can be tricky to define and identify. Below I share a selection of my articles and videos that can help you define what infidelity is, how to end an affair when you or your partner find yourself embroiled in one, and how to help your relationship recover after infidelity has rocked your monogamy. What is an Affair? At its most basic, infid

Lots of couples go through it. Not everyone blogs about it. And very few post photos. In a recent piece by Yolonda Jones, both blog and photos show how powerful and poignant the process of recovering from an affair can be, fore both partners. Her words are raw and transparent. She writes directly about her devastation and what really happens in the wake of a betrayal. She unpacks the rollercoaster of their ride through PTSD and how they both managed. One of the most moving e

Are you ready to break up or to wake up? That’s the first question to ask yourself after you or your partner has had an affair. If you think maybe it was a wake-up call, instead of a way out of the relationship, then there are three steps you can take to repair things between you. Check out my recent article on YourTango to learn the three steps necessary to recover and build a stronger, more passionate post-affair relationship. #infidelity #recoveringafterinfidelity #relat