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COUPLES RETREAT – GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT in MEXICO Casa de los Artistas, Boca de Tomatlan, near Puerto Vallarta, Mexico March 12-19,...

Facing Reality, The New Monogamy Affairs outside of marriage are nothing new, but this take on monogamy is. Facing Reality, The New...

From a reader: So what you are saying is that the New Monogamy means that I should tell my husband that we should start an open marriage?...

Somehow my life will never be the same after teaching here for two days – in Israel. Most of every moment I feel I have had some...

Yes, you heard it here. From the couple’s therapist herself. But its true. Most couples therapy focuses on dealing with the day to day...

It’s April – beautiful Spring days full of new beginnings. New life. And new obstacles. I have new life brewing, in my attic. Baby...

I taught a class today at a local college. There were four questions the students had, and the answers I gave them: 1. What exactly...

An old friend came to see me today. I hadnt seen him in at least 15 years. We had connected through email, and stayed in touch recently...

There are new books coming out this month, and new movies, all about marriage and commitment. Movies and books in popularity right now...

Talking to your partner about their desires and learning what their inner fantasy is like is different than sharing yours – be curious...

The moment we commit to ‘forever’ to our partner, we RELAX into the relationship, and what happens? We immediately REGRESS. We go back...

Intensives Intensives are private psychotherapy sessions for couples who are traveling from out of town and cannot make it to weekly...

What is the future of Sex? Can we, as pair bonding humans, really stay faithful to each other? Are we destined to cheat? Helen Fisher,...

Look for my expert advice about celebrities having babies to save their relationship —– I love being quoted in an article about Fergie!!!...

Only You. And You. And You. Polyamory—relationships with multiple, mutually consenting partners—has a coming-out party. By Jessica...

In my ongoing writing and researchI am exploring the FUTURE OF SEX and the unique ways couples deal withlong term commitment and...

In my ongoing writing and research for my next book, I have talked to couples who are finding new and unique ways of dealing with long...

Perspectives on SACRED PORN & THE EMPOWERING USE OF FANTASY with Tammy Nelson In this episode, Tammy discloses the path of Sacred Porn....

The Record-Review New York Love & Marriage Section Special Page 7-A February 13 2009 In treatment: Staying in love, with a little help...

Article in The Republican; Girls Just Want to Have Fun Massachusetts January 15 2009 Passionate Partners by Denise Favro Schwartz...