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Are you finding yourself feigning a headache to get out of having sex with your lover? Has the honeymoon phase disappeared long ago? I...

Mindfulness is a hot buzz word right now, but it’s for a good reason. It works. Mindfulness is being attentive to the emotions and...

Some people are unclear about what sex therapists do. I am so happy that Dale Allen and Arden Donahue invited me to share my work as a...

Many couples who come see me have experienced some betrayal in their relationship – a physical, emotional, or even financial betrayal can...

Smart guys will hide or destroy all evidence, but there are a few signs that can’t be destroyed. The number one sign that someone is...

Marriage today faces some incredible challenges, possibly more than ever before in history. Modern couples don’t just struggle with basic...

Much of my work with couples is in the effort to save their marriage following infidelity, loss of sexual desire, or some other damage to...

Studies vary about why people have affairs. Some say it’s the high from lying and hiding, some say it’s purely about opportunity. But...

There is nothing worse than coming home after a long day at work, only to immediately be pulled into a fight with your spouse over...

In today’s world going to a therapist when your marriage is falling apart is like going to the Shaman or the healer in the old days when...

Being in a toxic relationship is horrible enough; having to go through the same experiences on more than one occasion (and with different...

Was your Valentine’s Day lackluster in the sex department? Would like to create more desire, arousal and fun in your sexual life? Then...

The media has, once again, gone crazy with a new study. This time they are claiming that some women have a specific gene that leads them...

The Catholic church has maintained rigorous doctrines regarding the romantic and sexual relationships of it’s believers including...

Are you and your partner fighting all the time? Many couples find it difficult to stop fighting. They get into a rhythm of arguing and...

Elloa Atkinson’s article for Huffington Post, “I love my husband but here’s why I want to cheat” went viral. I had the pleasure of...

Secrecy is potentially damaging to a relationship, leaving the spouse in the dark and feeling betrayed when the secret comes to light....

Few can deny that French is a very romantic language; after all, Paris is the city of love. Bring just a taste of Paris into your sex...

Narcissists wreak havoc on relationships, in both the therapists office and the bedroom. A new research study (mentioned in Psychology...

Cara Cordoni, a coach, shares her work with polyamorous clients. In her article for YourTango.com, The BIG Difference Between Polyamory...