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Lessons learned from 12 years of celibacy
Sophie Fontanel’s story is a fascinating one – she willingly spent 12 years in celibacy, not because she was pursuing a future as a nun,...
Monogamy in Nature, Human Evolution
It’s no secret to anyone who is familiar with my work that there is a debate amongst sex and relationship experts whether sexual and...
Resuming sexual activity following heart attack or stroke
A lively sex life is important for both the intimacy in your relationship and your overall wellbeing. Many patients are nervous about...
Blogger reviews Sexual pain and anxiety teleclass with Talli Rosenbaum
Following my teleclass with Talli Rosenbaum on sexual pain and anxiety, I was pleased to have a comprehensive and thoughtful review...
The 7 Weirdest Sex Stories of the Ancient World
I came across this fun and informative article and wanted to share it with all of you. Check out how interesting history can be! The 7...
Is there more intimacy in long-distance relationships?
I came across an interesting article regarding long-distance relationships. Our culture leads us to believe long-distance relationships...
New Events! Erotic Recovery and Gender Intelligence Training
I’m excited to announce two new events in my schedule of upcoming events. EROTIC RECOVERY AFTER INFIDELITY: Creating a New Monogamy A...
Sex is good for your health and beauty, whatever your age
Turns out that having a healthy sex life is good for you, particularly in your older years. Check out this article highlighting the...
Could lack of sleep cause relationship distress?
It’s no surprise that relationship problems can keep people up at night, but could a deficit in sleep be causing or contributing to your...
Join me at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit
I’m excited to announce that I will be participating on an Author’s Roundtable panel at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit. Come join us for...
The changing reality of marriage, in Japan
Fewer people are getting married here in the United States, and its a trend in Japan, too. A survey by Japanese magazine (Joshi Spa!)...
Infidelity and Painful Sex
Can affairs be caused by a woman withdrawing from sex, particularly if they are in pain? Peter T. Pacik is a plastic surgeon who offers...
Relationships: It’s a matter of choice
Abuse is never acceptable in any relationship arrangement: monogamous, polygamous, polyamorous, or otherwise. We are living in a positive...
New Movie ‘Thanks for Sharing’ about Sex Addiction
New movie about sex addiction is apparently really understated, with a PG rating. Would you watch this movie out of sheer curiosity? I’m...
Q&A with John Gray regarding gender relations in the workplace
Recently I was on a panel with John Gray, author of the bestselling Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, discussing gender...
Sexual and emotional abuse affects development of the brain in different ways
The human brain is a fascinatingly complex organ, as evidenced by new research published in American Journal of Psychiatry . Sexual and...
Is marriage doomed to extinction?
How to Live in a World Where Marriage Is in Decline. Did you know that the government is worried about the decline in marriage? While...
What can gay couples teach straight couples about marriage?
Opponents of gay marriage have argued that allowing same-sex marriage will “destroy the institution of marriage,” but with divorce rates...
Online relationships lead to better marriages
Did you meet your current love on the internet? Or are you still looking? Good news! A recent study says that married people who meet...
New book on female sexuality destroys myths
Daniel Bergner has published a groundbreaking book that challenges many of the myths regarding female sexuality in our culture. Salon.com...
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