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Has technology changed the way we view sex? The increase in technology has changed not only the way we view life, but who we are as people. The use of smart phones, computers, smart watches and other hand held devices has already turned us all into partial-hybrid-humans. As cyborgs sporting robotic extensions of our own bodies, high tech non-permanent partial attachments to our limbs, we are obligated to check in, to post, to swipe, to update, and to check out, almost all the

By Guest Author, Scarlett White Loving relationships bring countless benefits; security, companionship, a partner that has your back and, if you are lucky, a true friend. Committed partnerships also enjoy a unique level of intimacy. But sometimes the heightened level of familiarity and hectic schedules can interfere with a sexual relationship. Sex can become predictable, routine or even a chore. It’s unlikely that you could recreate the frenzied intensity of the early days of

You have discovered that you have been infected with an STD/STI. Now what? Sharing the news with an existing or prospective partner can be rough. If your relationship is solid or your prospective partner is worth it, the following tips may help you better cope with your future. Read my expert advice in this recent HuffPo article . #HuffPo #sex #STD #STI

Ever since the birth control pill came out in the 60s, the responsibility for preventing pregnancy has largely fallen on women. Yes, men often carry condoms, but too many avoid using them, bemoaning the loss of sensation. Now, there is finally a viable option of male birth control. A biomedical engineer in India has invented a substance that can be injected into the scrotum that interferes with the sperms’ ability to travel through the penis. It is 98% effective at preventing

Lisa Lawless is right : Vibrators can enhance a woman’s sex life. There are a lot of obstacles in life to having great sex. Why shouldn’t more women consider giving a vibrator a try? The intense vibrations from sex devices can cause pleasurable sensations that often lead to quick and powerful orgasms. These same vibrations help to bring more blood flow to the vulva area, making the female body healthier and making sex more pleasurable. And here’s a bonus – all of this can hel

A healthy and active sex life is important for overall physical, mental, and emotional health. It’s also great for your work productivity, according to a recent study . Unfortunately, work stress can get in the way of a regular sex life and many couples struggle to balance the demands of their busy lives with maintaining a healthy relationship. It’s important to find ways to stay connected and keep the erotic spark between you alive and exciting. We live in an era where we ar

Americans of all ages are having sex less frequently than previous generations. Although the reasons are unclear, a recent study posted on the Today Show website and in the Washington Post , reports that even Millenials are having less sex with fewer partners. Couples used to report more sex than their single peers but are now saying they have erotic interactions less often. While many factors can contribute to low-sex/no-sex relationships, a primary culprit is the lack of c

Sex That Works by Wendy Stragr, founder and owner of Good Clean Love, was reviewed in the New York Times this week, an excellent review! They say the book is “…thoughtful, well written and dare I say, a little inspirational.” So excited for her. The article is “Sex-Ed for Grownups” — they also review Laurie Mintz’s Becoming Cliterate and Winifred M. Reilly’s It Takes One To Tango . The journalist Judith Newman starts off with an interesting quote: “According to a 2004 stud

“Youth across the US, and the entire world for that matter, deserve access to relevant, contemporary information about sex,” said Robert Parmer recently in Elite Daily . Rarely today is there mention of LGBTQI+ issues when sex education is offered in schools. The curriculum is usually heteronormative, gives little in the way of orientation education , and most LGBTQI+ youth are left feeling invisible, unworthy, and sometimes even wrong. These young people are then more ill-pr

Check the July 3rd issue of The New York Times to see Abby Ellin’s article, “More Women Look Over the Counter for a Libido Fix.” If you...

Do you find it difficult to make time for sex? Are you always either too tired or too busy for intimacy with your partner? Don’t worry,...