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The Allure of the Nanny; Why Men Cheat With Domestic Workers
I have to say I was somewhat dismayed when I heard that Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver were breaking up and that the reason for...
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Arnold and Maria; The Truth Comes Out
I have to say I was somewhat dismayed when I heard that Arnold and Maria were breaking up. And I was really bummed out to hear today...
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Is It Cheating If It’s Only Online?
By Tammy Nelson, PhD Is it cheating if it is only online? Some experts say “yes.” “Online emotional affairs are just affairs that have...
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Emotional Affairs
I interviewed Peggy Vaughan today on the weekly Imago think tank. Peggy is the author of a great book called “The Monogamy Myth.” She...
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Why do people cheat?
Why do people cheat? Are affairs a natural result of long term relationships? We live in a culture where almost fifty percent of us...
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Is He Using the Internet to Cheat On-line?
Is making friends on social networking sites influencing how we create real relationships in real time—and maybe the wrong kind of...
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Can Facebook hurt your marriage?
Today I posted a question on my Fan Page on Facebook; it seemed like the perfect place to ask: “Does Facebook hurt your marriage?” Within...
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Can Cheating Help Your Marriage?
Can infidelity ever be positive? Isn’t cheating a way to kill a marriage? Doesnt betrayal breaks up even the strongest relationships?...
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What happens AFTER forgiveness?
So you had an affair. Or your partner cheated. What now? Most of the popular literature on affairs doesnt tell you how to really thrive...
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Dr Tammy Nelson talks New Monogamy on NPR station WHYY
You can link to the show by going to http://www.whyy.org/91FM/voices.html Hear Dr Tammy Nelson talk about the New Monogamy on NPR station...
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How Do You Know if He’s Still Cheating?
How can you tell if an affair is really over? What if he says he’s stopped? Can you let it go, and believe what he says? Read more in my...
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Is the affair ever really over?
A woman sat in my office today and asked me this question. “Can couples really get over an affair?” she asked. “I mean, is it really...
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EROTIC RECOVERY AFTER INFIDELITY
FOR THOSE WHO MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN A FREE TELECLASS: Join Rachel Moheban and her special guest Tammy Nelson PhD, Board Certified...
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Five Reasons Couples Cheat
Every day in the news we hear another story about a rich, famous or powerful couple caught in the act with their proverbial pants down. ...
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Should a marriage end when someone has an affair?
How many people cheat? In 2002 studies revealed that 50-60% of married men and 45-55% of married women engage in extramarital sex at...
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Why did we both have affairs?
Question from a reader: “I am 70 years old. I look back at my marriage now, of 50 plus years and I wonder how we made it. We both had...
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Are affairs ever forgiveable?
Question from a reader: “I had an affair once. We were very young and our marriage had just started to tank. He didnt want to have sex...
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How to Avoid an Affair
Question from a reader: “So how do I avoid cheating on my husband? I love him, but I’m bored. And there’s this guy at work. Well, he’s...
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Infidelity Recovery
Ok, can you really get over it? She sat in my office, looking crestfallen. Her husband had an affair, and she was devastated, she said....
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Eliot Spitzer’s Wife Says His Affair With a Prostitute Was Her ‘Failing’
Is it Your Partner’s Fault if You Have Sex with a Prostitute? (SOURCE: www.Lemondrop.com June 6, 2010) But the case of Eliot Spitzer,...
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