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A Couples Retreat Was a Breakthrough Moment for My Relationship

A couple came to one of my couples retreats. She was the dragger. He was the dragee. She was nervous. He did not want to be there. We...

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Sex Therapists Uphold Civil Rights for ALL

Like so many of you, I was both saddened and outraged by the recent tragic events in Charlottesville. I am still confused by the...

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Are You Killing Your Sex Life?

Couples create low sex relationships. But it only takes one to get it up and running again. What Gets Your Partner “In the Mood?” Do More...

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Are Kids Getting Their Sex Ed from Porn?

Porn has been vilified for decades as a destroyer of marriages, an addictive drug, and a quick way to ruin a good sex life by destroying...

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Young Girls and Cosmetic Vaginal Surgery

Do you talk to your children about sex and their bodies? If not, you could be unwittingly contributing to what I call a “low sense of...

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My Blog in Top 50 of Top 100 Blogs

I’m delighted to have recently made the list of Top 100 Psychotherapy Blogs on Feedspot. I am number 43, which puts me in the top 50. And...

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When Do Cheaters Talk to Their Lovers?

Twenty five to sixty five percent of people cheat at some point in their marriage. The results of infidelity research are non-conclusive:...

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How Do You Get the Sex You Want?

What is the number one thing that will guarantee you get the sex you want? Communicate. Before you have sex for the first time. Did you...

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Do You Feel Comfortable Helping Couples in Crisis?

Relationships can be difficult. It can be stressful to be in a romantic partnership even on a good day. Bringing that tension and stress...

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